姊妹淘心話 2012-01-13 揍他? 吼他? 到底怎麼讓小孩聽話?!

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1. I agree with 瓜爸.  Both my kids were born in US. Their pediatrician told me the same thing. So ,since they were little, I let them decide how much they want to eat each meal as long as they know they are full. In the beginning, they were not eating because they did not like the food (of course they said they were full), I told them it is perfectly fine, because that means they were not hungry. So the only thing they could have before next meal is milk. They learned quickly not to do that again. Their pediatrician also told me that kids will potty train themselves when they are ready. That is true. Both my kids were out of diaper in a few days when they decided it was time. My older one learned ride bike in 10 minutes when she was 5 year-old. But the younger one refused to remove the training wheels at 5. We did not force her, when she turned 6, she told us she was ready and asked us to remove the training wheel, she took the ride and not even felled down once. My point is that every kid is different, they have their own timing and needs. They also have different talents, it is not one size fits all. We have to respect them as an individual and let them learn their own mistakes.
   瓜爸 is right about the “Trust” issue, too. My kids know “lying” is the biggest mistake they can make. Ohter than that, I have only one guide line for their behaviors, that is “Treat people as you want to be treated.” Within this rule, any mistake is acceptable. Just need to learn from the mistakes. I told them they will never stop making mistake, I am still making my share of mistakes. The only reason not making mistake is not trying, then life is meaningless. 

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2. 我不迫小孩吃東西，生物體肚餓自然會吃東西，這生存本能接近絕對

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3. spare the rod, spoil the child.

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4. oh gosh. 我到要看看瓜爸的小孩以後是什麼樣. 上班絕對不能被上司罵,要求, 動不動就要周圍的人誇讚他.

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   • 不被打不代表会不独立

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