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May 7, 2014
来自星星的事 2014-05-06 虎媽家規凍未著! 生活大概就像是 B18的煉獄一樣…
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May 7, 2014
老师，你说的，好准哦。
有病的媽媽~去死吧
變態….
哀 跟我家一模一樣 重年輕女。 都不了解毀傷到女生尤其是老大的心靈。等SON長大了。才知道被受到最重傷害的，才是會一直守在和孝順妳身邊的人
Good luck, I used to be in the same boat but I fought it out and I am much happier now
这个不叫虎妈，叫变态
醜女人多做怪.
華人並不愛家！？太值得我們深思了！ （老外看華人 ）
我們總以為我們中國人是世界上最有家庭觀念的種族之一，並且深深地為之自豪，然而在老外的眼中，卻未必如此。
有次我和我歐洲的朋友談起了中國人和澳洲人對家庭的重視。沒想到，那幾位歐洲朋友說：「你別生氣，其實，我們覺得你們中國人並不愛家，並不像你們自己說的這麼注重家庭。你們更愛金錢！」我愕然。
於是，我記下了這些真誠的對話：「無論在歐洲還是在中國當地，你們中國人的確很勤奮，中國人在海外也能比當地人積蓄更多的錢財，但我不認為這是你們中國人有經商的天賦，而是你們比我們更節儉，更能省，是通過降低生活標准來完成的金錢積累。你們平時很少上酒吧，週末也很少度假，甚至週末或假期都不休息。衣服都是從中國買了帶過去，因為這裡更便宜，我甚至看到有上海學生帶了很多碗過去。
「你們會沒日沒夜的工作，把孩子都交給老人照管，除了關心孩子的學習成績外，你們忙得很少和孩子一起玩。耶誕節你們甚至都不休息，而在海外春節是沒有假期的，耶誕節不帶著孩子去海灘，因為你們會覺得這個時候的機票、賓館都貴，不如趁這個時候做點生意賺更多的錢，等淡季了再出門。」
「所以，你們華人的孩子盡管學業上很優秀，但他們總是覺得自己很另類，覺得和當地人比起來，父母更關心的是家庭的金錢收入、關心的是他們的學習分數，而不是他們的快樂。」
「是的，我知道你要說什麼，你們中國人愛說這是為了孩子，為了下一代多掙些錢，但每一代都說自己賺錢是為了下一代，那麼究竟哪一代會真正地使用 這筆錢呢？ 」
「生命是那麼短暫，你們藉口為了家庭的未來，而在現在就犧牲了家庭，我不知道這個帳是怎麼算過來的，怎麼還能體現你們自己很自豪的家庭觀念。」
「你們為了工作，可以忍受長時間的夫妻分離，要在我們眼中，夫妻不在一起三個月以上，基本上就該考慮辦離婚了。所以我們被派到海外來，就一定是全家一起來，我的妻子、孩子都搬到上海來。他們要是不願意來，我就不可能接受這項工作，家庭比工作更重要呀。我在中國甚至聽說過你們的上一輩人，甚至有夫妻幾十年都分在兩個地方的，到了退休的時候才能生活在一起。這太殘酷了。難道你們就不會為了家庭放棄工作嗎？工作也還可以再找呀！」
「我的中國公司裡有很優秀的人才，但因為不是上海本地人，家庭就在另外城市，每個月甚至每兩個月才能相聚一次，為什麼其中的一方就不能放棄工作呢？我知道有很多在城市裡工作的農民，他們甚至只能一年回家一次，都說是為了家庭在掙錢，可這樣的錢再多，又有什麼意義呢？」
「在歐洲，你們中國人基本都比當地人有錢，但沒有人羡慕你們的生活，我認為你們就是金錢的機器，但你們為自己的賺錢愛好塗上了一層家庭的色彩。 」
這篇文章很有道理，把中國現在家庭描述沒有愛，沒有性生活樂趣。我們大家好好靜一下，除了錢我們還有什麼？所以離婚率居高不下，夫妻分居二地丶孩子讓老人管等等…。這些是我們所需要的嗎？
原始积累时代
Don’t be too serious, I don’t think the average foreigner care that much about Chinese to have such an in depth opinion about the Chinese society. Are you sure that it’s not actually you who wrote this? Hahahahaha 😀
you’re right about foreigner dont care about Chinese and all, but you still have to agree this is prob the “big picture” of how they see our family culture. Same as we can’t really agree that the fact most American parents let children life on their own pay their own bill right after high school. lol, this is a pretty well shared facebook article you can search it through google
live on their own*
Actually I don’t have to agree about it and I don’t care whether it’s true or not. Chinese people can live however they want to, it’s their choice. If you want to change the society, become a politician or something, but this is probably not the right place for you to “educate” people. I also don’t have anything against people living on their own after high school, it’s their own choice, their country, their culture and their life style. Besides not everyone likes to hang out on Facebook 😉
Wow chill your tits stranger, just sharing an article here means I’m “educating” and is willing to “change the society”? LMAO, really!! chill you hard sensitive nipples man! Of course I know it is their own country and shit, I’m just sharing a well-spread article on the internet here. It offend you or something? And sorry sir I also don’t use FB much. Like I said search it from google it is everywhere on google. What? You gonna tell me you don’t use google that much too? Good for you!!!
lol, btw roam somewhere else hotshot! Maybe try read more articles on internet, seems like you can use some extra knowledge.
Hahahaha, I only have problem with people trying to lecture others, which is exactly who you are! And snobs who thinks they know more than others and trying to put others down with their “knowledge”. Stop trying to be such a “intelligent” person and come up with something your own, instead of citing random articles on Google. And not everybody is as “knowledgeable” as you are, offering such great insights into the society and world we live in. You can “LOL” or “LMAO” however much you want, nobody will think you’re brilliant because of that. Yeah, and keep putting others down with your degrading talk, in order to make up for your own inferiority complex. Besides, to look down on others and think that one is much better is something many Chinese do, maybe you should write an article about it too, hehehehe 😀
First, you are very fast handed at replying, you replied all my posts within an hour. Do you spend most of your time here trying to interact with people? I’m not even gonna ask why you rather spend time here typing other than walk outside and do something meaningful since you are acting such heroic here. In the end of the day, if you think sharing an article in the comment box is an action of lecturing others and also got offended for some reason, you already proved yourself that something is not right inside your brain. Well, it is really stressful and a waste of time talking with an unknown person on the internet about their mental illness and personal feeling so I’m gonna leave you here alone. You can say whatever you want and good luck finding next person who are willing to talk with you that might be able to fulfill your next lifetime achievement. lol, how adorable :)) Hope you enjoy the rest of your day surfing internet??? (BTW try read your comment one more time, I almost cant understand what you are trying to whine about coz you are something else), LOLOLOL
agree
游麗玉是有病喔! 有憂鬱症吧?
絕對有病還洋洋得意
他們都幾歲了，爸媽是有病??
一堆心智有問題的家長
這已經不是愛了
都一堆歪理
The mother is seriously too much